RELATIONSHIPS 101, ASK DIVA ....

GUYS ..HI kwa mnaofatilia Podcast zangu mtagundua naongelea sana mahusiano kwa undani zaidi, season 2 is over April ntaanza season 3 so rudia season 1 n 2 on anchor n spotify and Apple na kwengine kote just named few, My Podcast so lit yup, Mahusiano yana uwanja mpana sana and so confusing even i get confused sometimes hasa nikipenda , na naweza Pendaa na kubwaga Pia Im like that stak stress , Watching THE GIFT on Netflix IM ON SEASN 2 nime pause for relationships 101 blog post , maana naona wengi mnani email and whatsapp me nakuwa busy sometimes you know , inshort kuna mtu kaingia katika mahusiano na mtu amesema familia ya mwanaume inampasua kichwa ,kaomba ushauri, so a quickie advice, guys... when you begin a relationship with someone, you are also entering into a relationship with their Problems, their wounds, their fears, their family and their behaviorals flaws , tena kama ana family, mke na watoto Maana Pia ipo hii dating a married man or woman, this is just outhere stak sema haipo ipo, tena sana tu na mi naona if makes you happy then why not, go for whatever makes you happy .... au kama a nig aliwahi kuoa kuna kuchambwa kurogwa and so many kugombania bwana kuna vimada sijui chain imejaa, yan shida kibao jaman mapenzi haya watu hujitoa ufahamu, said kurogwa Yes dunia ina mambo hasa, ndio maana tunashauriwa mahusiano yawe siri sana , i hardly don believe in uchawi ila nshakabwa mchana kweupe sitasahau ilibidi nifanyiwe dua ya kinga ya kiislamu ndio nikakaa sawa yan nilihisi kudata and was only last year , so trust me kama uliangalia interview yangu na ICU na kina Kwissa that story was so real , ila for now hakuna ananigusa nimewekwa sawa sanaaaa ...... Guys in relationship while choosing choose wisely, das why huwa tunashauriwa sana kutokimbilia mahusiano na watu sababu kuna mengi yanaweza kukupasua moyo ni vile tu ukipenda boga penda na ua lake na uwe mvumilivu, in life we all come with something, it will never be a cake walk yeah , sometimes you need to speak up na muhusika ili ujue where you stand, if they agree with you or not, you have to speak up regardless, ingawa ukimya pia ni jibu tosha, trying so hard to have a conversation on how to revolutionize relationships and how to transform love life , sometimes huwa unaweza kuwa na mtu ambae sio sahihi sababu tu unahisi unahitaji Pumziko au kutolewa hamu , when you look back kila mtu anaweza akawa kaku disappoint so labda ww pia unaweza ukawa na tatizo lako au ni tatioz maana hakuna kakamilika ila Pia fanyia kazi never too late, i believe kila anaeku dissapoint ni mwalimu wako in life, disappointments simply a lesson learned, so all wrongs teaches somehow , the right ones are teachers too guys , usijute in life, we live we learn, relationships are classroom, just live with that Perpective, so ili maisha ya mapenzi yaendelee lazima kidogo vitu vizungumzwe peupe, kuna watu wameoana na wana mahusiano lakini Mapenzi hakuna wanaishi Pamoja disconnected, disconnected from heart, heads, yan kwisha , ni ile hakuna jinsi tutafanyaje bora iende which is very bad and dangerous, attachments hakuna, couples live together disconnected because of so many things including kuchukuliana poa, ukishindwa let go , thats the strongest iknow but worth it, kila mtu anastahili to feel like anapendwa na anajaliwa na kuheshimiwa kama hio hamna then hamna point ya mahusiano, anaekuheshimu atahakikisha Pia anafanya ndugu wanakuheshimu as well , na si ku entertain upuuzi wao.

PRIVACY IN A RELATIONSHIP Hii ni Muhimu sana hasa kwa wapenzi na hata wanandoa na hata wale wa mpango wa kando , sio kila mtu anafurahia maisha yako, watu wana husda sana vijicho vingi, Tanzania wengi hufurahia wakiona Mtu ana shida ana huzuni analalamika au analia wanataka wote muwe na hali moja , sijui why iko hivi,ni asili ya roho mbaya tu, huwa nafatilia sana story za mahusiano, nasoma message, emails, simu huwa naongea na wengi wenu , kupenda kuna mawili, unaweza Penda kweli ila Pia inaweza kuwa maigizo, this can become an obsession and sneaky ,inaweza kuwa the need to win, to be choosen, to be adored, all in the name of being enough, Mapenzi buana huwa hayalazimishwi, you cant competi na mtu ili u win over mahaba hakuna Mapenzi Yako very natural si ya kulazimishwa, The only love ita survive ni ya siri, yenye kuheshimiana , kuthaminiana na kusikilizana , inayohusisha watu wawili na loving connection with someone that itafanya kazi ata akiwa na mambo yake but as long as anakupenda anajua where to get you so mnajuana, try to give yourself a space, step out the ring, breath, and look out if that is what you really want, My Podcast ziko Spotify or Apple and yes kwa walio nje ya Nchi Just Search Divathebawse and we good to go, FEAR IS SOMETHING ambayo inaweza ua mahusiano, so we being adviced to face our fears, fear , boundaries, ni vitu vinavyoweza sababisha mahusiano kufa mchana Peupe, so sad alot of us destroy our relationships because of fear, tunaji Punish na mawazo na kujipa u FBI wa Bure sababu Ya wasiwasi and what else, we disconnect ourselves, my advice is if we want to restore and repair, we must open and tell the truth instead of hide behind old destructive patterning, tutaendelea, kwa maswali ya mahusiano na ushauri check me kwa email will respond na kuandaa makala na ntashauri Just ASK DIVA and i will try to reach You Guys, Have a GOOD day. Lovely Diva,